What is the biggest mistake young people make?
Mayuri, one of my distant relatives, married when she was only 19 years old. She was married to a middle-class family in a small township. You will know urban life, boring without little or no entertainment.
I once went to her and the way she wanted to live her life conveyed a different story. We look forward to a magnificent urban life in a rural town. Expectations are far behind the truth.
Lakshika, you know, Mayuri failed in 12th place. Rooms in two classes, how could you expect to live the life people work so hard for.
A relative who accompanied me to his house told me.
In addition, he went to a local college and told himself that all he was doing was scrolling on instagram college and back home. There are no academic efforts in any other field and you expect a rich / successful lifestyle.
Not only did the truth contradict what was expected, but his efforts did.
Being from a middle-class family, the best way to get out of this middle class is to study and get a good job. All he did was enjoy and relax. This was not at all what he should have done.
What else her parents could have done other than marry her, she was doing nothing in her life. And he did not object when they got married. The family he marries is honorable, but it is not what he expected.
Remaining dreams Only dreams.
One of the biggest mistakes a person can make in adolescence is not to realize what you need to do in order to have the lifestyle you want. If you can't work for it, you won't get it. It's that simple.
Audience audience out there, make sure you don't end up like Myrrh, work on your goals and make them happen.
If you have the courage to dream something, be brave enough to make it a reality.
